Planning for a perfect hens’ weekend to make your girlfriend (the bride -to -be) feel special and also pampered is quite a task. Taking into account the likes of all your friends and the bride can take a lot of effort. With thousands of errands to look after, the bride has her hands full and is also in a tensed state. So to make her a little more relaxed and surprise her with the most entertaining experience of her life, the hens’ do should be planned well in advance by her girlfriends or Bridesmaids.

These days Bachelorette parties are drifting away from the age-old stereotyped tradition of bachelorettes pouring themselves in liquor and fantasizing a handsome male dancer. There has been a transition and transformation of some sort where these women have become more health conscious and do not just like to indulge in a fake soiree with an unknown individual but prefer to creatively participate in the event with their own group. So it’s all about performing the action rather than just being a mere spectator. All this amazing action has found its way to the wild too. There are wine tastings managed with a boot camp of healthy and rigorous physical activity which includes group hikes and runs on the beach. If the bride is on a mission to lose a few pounds and seem perfectly fit before her big day, then there can be no other supportive gesture from her friends to help her in achieving her goal and also let her enjoy their company. Planning the bachelorette in such a way that it serves as an enhancer for your dear friend will be an overall joyous, morale boosting and exceptional experience.

Many times you may have pregnant bridesmaids or friends and with them it is not possible to go on raging nightclubs, sipping in penis straws and taking heavy tequila shots. Their preamble to your wedding can consist of a weekend retreat at a private home combined with a celebrity trainer who can offer yoga or capoeira classes, after which you can lay relaxing by the pool enjoying a heavenly aromatherapy massage. Making fitness a priority in your bachelorette party can have very positive changes in the lifestyle as well. It is not always necessary to have an outrageous blowout or encounters.

Girls with natural endorphins and a great attitude is all you need to have a stress free and a winning bachelorette party. There is a host of activities that one can indulge in the wet and wild way. You can select your favorite pick from Punting to Jet skiing, from Mountain Biking to Kayaking, from Surfing and sailing to Mountain boarding etc. Whatever gets your adrenaline rush going, choose that activity or sports. Even a run with your friends can be awesome. Add more zing and zest to it by accessorizing the attire with the bride sporting a T-shirt that says “Bride to be running down the aisle” and the other friends can wear “Chasing the bride to be down the aisle” and the ones that are cheering can wear something that says “Always a cheerleader never a bride”.

The main aim of any bachelorette party should be to give the bride an experience, she will cherish throughout life by bonding, supporting and enjoying and having a gala time together. Health and fitness can compensate for kinkiness and other X-rated ways usually resorted to for celebrating her last few days of being single.

Dean Gammell is the owner of henit.ie, Ireland’s leading hen party company. Henit.ie have recently opened up a new hen party Accessories section on their website. They can now provide you with all your novelties for your weekend away. Follow Dean on twitter @ Dean_Gammell