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There Is So Much More To Foster Carers

There Is So Much More To Foster Carers

<div align&equals;"justify">&NewLine;<p>Anyone who is thinking about becoming a foster parent may wonder if they have the skills or ability to do a good job&period; Chances are if they have the inclination to provide a temporary home for someone else&&num;8217&semi;s child&comma; they have the most important quality that will be needed&period; But they also may question how they can provide a meaningful and positive family experience for the child&period; In addition to the required elements of safety&comma; protection&comma; security&comma; stability&comma; and support&comma; foster parents can give their young charges some unique opportunities and experiences that they might not otherwise have&period; Even if they did do some of these activities in their other home&comma; experiencing them with foster parents helps to seal the bond between them&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><img class&equals;"aligncenter wp-image-12080 size-full" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;medusamagazine&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2015&sol;06&sol;image1&period;jpg" alt&equals;"There Is So Much More To Foster Carers" width&equals;"456" height&equals;"250" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Quality Education<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>While a foster child&&num;8217&semi;s education may need to be approved by the care agency&comma; foster carers often have the chance to recommend a specific school or curriculum&period; In some cases&comma; the child may be home schooled or enroll in a distance learning program&period; Overseeing the child&&num;8217&semi;s academic progress and providing educational support to ensure the child does well in school is an expectation and opportunity that many foster parents enjoy&period; An education lasts a lifetime&comma; so it is important to provide the very best options available&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Meaningful Excursions<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Although some kids balk at the idea of visiting a museum or strolling through a zoo&comma; most actually end up appreciating the experience afterward&comma; when they see how interesting it can be&period; Concerts&comma; plays&comma; and sports events are great activities for spending quality time with a foster child while providing experiences that up to this point&comma; have been missing&period; Art shows&comma; amusement parks&comma; and historic sites offer special opportunities for talking&comma; teaching&comma; and sharing among family members&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Fun Side Trips<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Camping outdoors&comma; getaway weekends&comma; and family vacations are wonderful ways to have fun with a foster child in the family&period; A day trip to a country orchard or visiting a local park are more opportunities to share new adventures and escape the daily routine&period; Job shadowing&comma; volunteering as a family&comma; and church services missions trips also bring family members closer&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Healthy Social Life<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Introducing a foster child to a normal&comma; healthy social life is a big advantage for him or her&period; Some kids have never learned how to get along well with others&period; They may be shy or have trouble getting along with other children&period; Many have been separated from neighbor children and have little socializing experience&period; Foster parents can teach their foster kids basic social etiquette&comma; both in person and online&period; Kids can be taught manners and how to be respectful to others if they have not learned it yet&period; Joining groups like the Boy Scouts or the church choir&comma; or playing a school sport helps a child to learn from peers how to behave properly and play fairly with others&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Friends And Family<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Perhaps most of all&comma; foster families teach a foster child the basic meaning of family&period; Although their families of origin may be conflicted&comma; absent&comma; or disrupted&comma; foster kids begin to see a healthier family model&comma; one they can be part of and learn from&period; They meet extended family who welcome them with open arms&comma; and the children start to realize their own self-worth&period; Holidays&comma; birthdays&comma; and special celebrations awaken new emotions and forge new ties while demonstrating a family&&num;8217&semi;s strength and solidarity&period; No matter what the child&&num;8217&semi;s future holds&comma; warm and happy times spent with foster family members and close friends will remain a valuable part of their growing up years and help to form their character&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Unforgettable Memories<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>When experiences like the above come into a child&&num;8217&semi;s life&comma; they remain embedded in memories that can be enjoyed for years to come&period; They lay a foundation of caring&comma; acceptance&comma; and hope that the child can build his or her life on&period; The time spent in foster care will never be forgotten&period; Whether the memories are positive or negative is mainly the responsibility of the foster caregivers and the support they receive in providing for a foster child in their home&period; Foster care provides a valuable service that allows children from troubled homes to experience normal life&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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