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Choosing A Host Family When Studying Abroad

<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi; font-weight&colon; normal&semi; text-decoration&colon; none&semi;" align&equals;"LEFT">Deciding to study abroad is one of the most beneficial things you can do to enhance your CV and expand your perspectives on the world&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi; font-weight&colon; normal&semi; text-decoration&colon; none&semi;" align&equals;"LEFT">On its own&comma; international study does wonders for proving your independence and adaptability&comma; but when combined with a host family stay &lpar;as opposed to renting your own place&comma; or living in student accommodation&rpar;&comma; placements have twice the personal value&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi; font-weight&colon; normal&semi; text-decoration&colon; none&semi;" align&equals;"LEFT">offering a completely rounded cultural immersion experience&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>    <img class&equals;"aligncenter size-Correct-Size wp-image-1380" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;medusamagazine&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2013&sol;05&sol;Choosing-A-Host-Family-When-Studying-Abroad1-640x456&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Choosing A Host Family When Studying Abroad" width&equals;"640" height&equals;"456" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi; font-weight&colon; normal&semi; text-decoration&colon; none&semi;" align&equals;"LEFT">So once you know where you want to study &lpar;and if you&&num;8217&semi;re lucky enough to be able to select your hosts&rpar;&comma; how should you choose the right host family for you&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi; font-weight&colon; normal&semi; text-decoration&colon; none&semi;" align&equals;"LEFT">Point to consider which may sway or influence your decision include&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<ul>&NewLine;<li>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi;"><strong>Geography &&num;8211&semi; <&sol;strong>To avoid huge transportation and commuting costs&comma; your first concern should be finding a family close to where you&&num;8217&semi;ll be studying and socialising&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<&sol;ul>&NewLine;<p>Find out if your potential hosts are rural or urban &lpar;and if this affects you at all&rpar;&period; If you will be studying in the city&comma; will you be able to stay with city hosts&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Or will you have to stay with a suburban family and commute&quest; If so&comma; can your family help you with your daily transportation&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<ul>&NewLine;<li>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi;"><strong>Religion<&sol;strong> &&num;8211&semi; Ask yourself if religion matters to you&period; If you hold a strong faith&comma; are your hosts tolerant of it&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<&sol;ul>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi;">You should equally be aware of your host family&&num;8217&semi;s faith&semi; if they are very religious&comma; would you be comfortable conforming to their terms&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<ul>&NewLine;<li>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi;"><strong>Family dynamics<&sol;strong> &&num;8211&semi; Will other students be living with you and your hosts&quest; Do you get your own room&quest; Does the family you plan to live with have children or pets&comma; and is that OK&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<&sol;ul>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi;">If you have animal allergies or phobias this may be an issue for you&period; Equally&comma; if you plan to stay with a large family with younger children&comma; find out if this will affect your study or your social life &&num;8211&semi; you may need to conform to family routines and curfews&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<ul>&NewLine;<li><strong>Language<&sol;strong> &&num;8211&semi; Do you speak your host&&num;8217&semi;s language&quest; Do they speak yours&quest;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<&sol;ul>&NewLine;<p>If you&&num;8217&semi;re studying abroad&comma; you&&num;8217&semi;re likely to need to learn the local language&comma; and if so&comma; home stay placements are the best way to brush up on your everyday skills&comma; practice your pronunciation and get a good &&num;8216&semi;real&&num;8217&semi; colloquial use of phrases&excl;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<ul>&NewLine;<li>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi;"><strong>Diet &&num;8211&semi; <&sol;strong>If you have specific dietary requirements&comma; are vegetarian&comma; or have allergies&comma; be sure your hosts can&comma; and are willing to accommodate&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<&sol;ul>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi;">Know which meals you will be provided with &lpar;if any&rpar;&comma; and find out if you will be expected to contribute to meals&sol; food budgets in any way&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<ul>&NewLine;<li>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi;"><strong>Lifestyle<&sol;strong> &&num;8211&semi; If you&&num;8217&semi;re quite a liberal person&comma; consider that living with a conservative family might be difficult for the both of you&comma; and vice versa&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<&sol;ul>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi;">Consider lifestyle issues such as sexual habits&comma; smoking and drinking&comma; assess your usual routines and consider your&comma; and your host family&&num;8217&semi;s preferences to these choices&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"margin-bottom&colon; 0cm&semi;">For example&comma; would you happy for your hosts to smoke and drink&quest; In some countries such as Denmark&comma; you may find that smoking is a more common part of everyday life than you are used to&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<ul>&NewLine;<li><strong>Study itself<&sol;strong> &&num;8211&semi; Lastly&comma; remember your base purpose is to study&excl; So before you choose&comma; make sure you&&num;8217&semi;ve selected an environment conducive to your work&period;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<&sol;ul>&NewLine;<p>Official exchange families will have been screened to ensure they meet certain standards&comma; but it&&num;8217&semi;s worth finding out additional details&period; For example&semi; will you need&sol; does your family have internet&comma; and if not&comma; can you access it elsewhere&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Families in places such as South America may have limited home internet access&comma; but internet cafés&comma; and your place of study will usually be reliable points of access&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>Don&&num;8217&semi;t be afraid to interview potential hosts&excl;<br &sol;>&NewLine;<&sol;strong><br &sol;>&NewLine;All of the above can be determined through good correspondence &&num;8211&semi; so don&&num;8217&semi;t be afraid to talk through your issues and requirements with a number of families&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>As you&&num;8217&semi;ll be with your hosts for a few months at least&comma; you should treat the decisions process a little like an interview &&num;8211&semi; speak to families &lpar;on the phone&comma; or by Skype&rpar; to decide who&&num;8217&semi;s right for you &&num;8211&semi; and pay attention to your gut feeling&excl;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>Don&&num;8217&semi;t just pick the first hosts you come across<&sol;strong><br &sol;>&NewLine;Your living experience will shape a huge part of your student exchange&comma; so it&&num;8217&semi;s important you know what you want to get out of your experience and match your hosts to suit&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>With an often overwhelming number of choices available&comma; the temptation to accept the first family you find can be overwhelming&comma; but take your time&comma; and remember that it&&num;8217&semi;s a two way process&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Your family must be equally as happy and trusting with you as you are with them &&num;8211&semi; they are letting a complete stranger into their homes and lives after all&excl;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Check all of this and you should get along fine with the family you eventually pick&period; But if there are issues&comma; remember &&num;8211&semi; your exchange programme will offer support if you need help or advice&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Good luck&comma; and happy host hunting&excl;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Alastair Kane is a freelance writer and travel blogger&period; He provided this aricle on behalf of Ceran a language school which offers intensive English courses amongst its many language courses&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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